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HOMILIES OF
ST. JOHN CHRYSOSTOM
ON THE EPISTLE OF
ST. PAUL THE APOSTLE
TO THE EPHESIANS
HOMILIES XX TO XXIV (CHAPTERS 5 & 6)
HOMILY XX.
EPHESIANS V. VERSES 22--33.
Verses
22--24. "Wives,
be in subjection unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband
is
the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head
of the Church: being Himself the Saviour of the body. But as the Church is
subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their husbands in everything."
A CERTAIN
wise man, setting down a number of things in the rank of blessings, set down
this also in the
rank
of a blessing, "A wife agreeing with her
husband." (Ecclus. xxv. 1.) And elsewhere again he sets it down among
blessings, that a woman should dwell in harmony with her husband. (Ecclus.
xl. 23.) And indeed from the beginning, God appears to have made special provision
for this union; and discoursing of the twain as one, He said thus, "Male
and female created He them" (Gen. i. 27); and again, "There is neither
male nor female." (Gal. iii. 28.) For there is no relationship between
man and man so close as that between man and wife, if they be joined together
as they should be. And therefore a certain blessed man too, when he would express
surpassing love, and was mourning for one that was dear to him, and of one
soul with him, did not mention father, nor mother, nor child, nor brother,
nor friend, but what? "Thy love to me was wonderful," saith he, "passing
the love of women." (2 Sam. i. 26.) For indeed, in very deed, this love
is more despotic than any despotism: for others indeed may be strong, but this
passion is not only strong, but unfading. For there is a certain love deeply
seated in our nature, which imperceptibly to ourselves knits together these
bodies of ours. Thus even from the very beginning woman sprang from man, and
afterwards from man and woman sprang both man and woman.[1] Perceivest thou
the close bond and connection? And how that God suffered not a different kind
of nature to enter in from without? And mark, how many providential arrangements
He made. He permitted the man to marry his own sister; or rather not his sister,
but his daughter; nay, nor yet his daughter, but something more than his daughter,
even his own flesh.[2] And thus the whole He framed from one beginning, gathering
all together, like stones in a building, into one. For neither on the one hand
did He form her from without, and this was that the man might not feel towards
her as towards an alien; nor again did He confine marriage to her,[3] that
she might not, by contracting herself,[4] and making all center in herself,
be cut off from the rest. Thus as in the case of plants, they are of all others
the best, which have but a single stem, and spread out into a number of branches;
(since were all confined to the root alone, all would be to no purpose, whereas
again had it a number of roots, the tree would be no longer worthy of admiration;)
so, I say, is the case here also. From one, namely Adam, He made the whole
race to spring, preventing them by the strongest necessity from being ever
torn asunder, or separated; and afterwards, making it more restricted, He no
longer allowed sisters and daughters to be wives, lest we should on the other
hand contract our love to one point, and thus in another manner be cut off
from one another. Hence Christ said, "He which made them from the beginning,
made them male and female." (Matt. xix. 4.)
For great
evils are hence produced, and great benefits, both to families and to states.
For there is
nothing
which so welds our life together as the love
of man and wife. For this many will lay aside even their arms,[5] for this
they will give up life itself. And Paul would never without a reason and without
an object have spent so much pains on this subject, as when he says here, "Wives,
be in subjection unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord." And why so?
Because when they are in harmony, the children are well brought up, and the
domestics are in good order, and neighbors, and friends, and relations enjoy
the fragrance. But if it be otherwise, all is turned upside down, and thrown
into confusion. And just as when the generals of an army are at peace one with
another, all things are in due subordination, whereas on the other hand, if
they are at variance, everything is turned upside down; so, I say, is it also
here. Wherefore, saith he, "Wives, be in subjection unto your own husbands,
as unto the Lord."
Yet how
strange! for how then is it, that it is said elsewhere, "If one
bid not farewell both to wife and to husband, he cannot follow me"? (Luke
xiv. 26.) For if it is their duty to be in subjection "as unto the Lord," how
saith He that they must depart from them for the Lord's sake? Yet their duty
indeed it is, their bounden duty. But the word "as" is not necessarily
and universally expressive of exact equality. He either means this, " 'as'
knowing that ye are servants to the Lord"; (which, by the way, is what
he says elsewhere, that, even though they do it not for the husband's sake,
yet must they primarily for the Lord's sake;) or else he means, "when
thou obeyest thy husband, do so as serving the Lord."[1] For if he who
resisteth these external authorities, those of governments, I mean, "withstandeth
the ordinance of God" (Rom. xiii. 2), much more does she who submits not
herself to her husband. Such was God's will from the beginning.
Let us
take as our fundamental position then that the husband occupies the place
of the "head," and the wife the place of the "body."
Ver. 23,
24. Then, he proceeds with arguments and says that "the husband
is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the Church, being Himself
the Saviour of the body. But[2] as the Church is subject to Christ, so let
the wives be to their husbands in everything."
Then after
saying, "The husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also
is of the Church," he further adds, "and He is the Saviour of the
body." For indeed the head is the saving health of the body. He had already
laid down beforehand for man and wife, the ground and provision of their love,
assigning to each their proper place, to the one that of authority and forethought,
to the other that of submission. As then "the Church," that is, both
husbands and wives, "is subject unto Christ, so also ye wives submit yourselves
to your husbands, as unto God."
Ver. 25. "Husbands,
love your wives, even as Christ also loved the Church."
Thou hast heard how great the submission; thou hast extolled and marvelled
at Paul, how, like an admirable and spiritual man, he welds together our whole
life. Thou didst well. But now hear what he also requires at thy hands; for
again he employs the same example.
"Husbands," saith he, "love
your wives, even as Christ also loved the Church."
Thou hast seen the measure of obedience, hear also the measure of love.[3]
Wouldest thou have thy wife obedient unto thee, as the Church is to Christ?
Take then thyself the same provident care for her, as Christ takes for the
Church. Yea, even if it shall be needful for thee to give thy life for her,
yea, and to be cut into pieces ten thousand times, yea, and to endure and undergo
any suffering whatever,--refuse it not. Though thou shouldest undergo all this,
yet wilt thou not, no, not even then, have done anything like Christ. For thou
indeed art doing it for one to whom thou art already knit; but He for one who
turned her back on Him and hated Him. In the same way then as He laid at His
feet her who turned her back on Him, who hated, and spurned, and disdained
Him, not by menaces, nor by violence, nor by terror, nor by anything else of
the kind, but by his unwearied affection; so also do thou behave thyself toward
thy wife. Yea, though thou see her looking down upon thee, and disdaining,
and scorning thee, yet by thy great thoughtfulness for her, by affection, by
kindness, thou wilt be able to lay her at thy feet. For there is nothing more
powerful to sway than these bonds, and especially for husband and wife. A servant,
indeed, one will be able, perhaps, to bind down by fear; nay not even him,
for he will soon start away and be gone. But the partner of one's life, the
mother of one's children, the foundation of one's every joy, one ought never
to chain down by fear and menaces, but with love and good temper. For what
sort of union is that, where the wife trembles at her husband? And what sort
of pleasure will the husband himself enjoy, if he dwells with his wife as with
a slave, and not as with a free-woman? Yea, though thou shouldest suffer anything
on her account, do not upbraid her; for neither did Christ do this.
Ver. 26. "And gave Himself up," he says, "for
it, that He might sanctify and cleanse it."
So then
she was unclean! So then she had blemishes, so then she was unsightly, so
then she was worthless!
Whatsoever kind of wife thou shalt take, yet shalt
thou never take such a bride as the Church, when Christ took her, nor one so
far removed from thee as the Church was from Christ, And yet for all that,
He did not abhor her, nor loathe her for her surpassing deformity. Wouldest
thou hear her deformity described? Hear what Paul saith, "For ye were
once darkness." (Eph. v. 8.) Didst thou see the blackness of her hue?
What blacker than darkness? But look again at her boldness, "living," saith
he, "in malice and envy." (Tit. iii. 3.) Look again at her impurity; "disobedient,
foolish." But what am I saying? She was both foolish, and of an evil tongue;
and yet notwithstanding, though so many were her blemishes, yet did He give
Himself up for her in her deformity, as for one in the bloom of youth, as for
one dearly beloved, as for one of wonderful beauty. And it was in admiration
of this that Paul said, "For scarcely for a righteous man will one die
(Rom. v. 7); and again, "in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died
for us." (Rom. v. 8.) And though such as this, He took her, He arrayed
her in beauty, and washed her, and refused not even this, to give Himself for
her.
Ver. 26,
27. "That He might sanctify it having cleansed it," he
proceeds, "by the washing of water with the word; that He might present
the Church to Himself a glorious Church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any
such thing, but that it should be holy and without blemish."
"By the washing or layer" He washeth her uncleanness. "By the
word," saith he. What word? "In the Name of the Father, and of the
Son, and of the Holy Ghost."[1] (Matt. xxviii. 19.) And not simply hath
He adorned her, but hath made her "glorious, not having spot, or wrinkle,
or any such thing." Let us then also seek after this beauty ourselves,
and we shall be able to create it. Seek not thou at thy wife's hand, things
which she is not able to possess. Seest thou that the Church had all things
at her Lord's hands? By Him was made glorious, by Him was made pure, by Him
made without blemish? Turn not thy back on thy wife because of her deformity.
Hear the Scripture that saith, "The bee is little among such as fly, but
her fruit is the chief of sweet things."[2] (Ecclus. xi. 3.) She is of
God's fashioning. Thou reproachest not her, but Him that made her; what can
the woman do? Praise her not for her beauty. Praise and hatred and love based
on personal beauty belong to unchastened souls. Seek thou for beauty of soul.
Imitate the Bridegroom of the Church. Outward beauty is full of conceit and
great license, and throws men into jealousy, and the thing often makes thee
suspect monstrous things. But has it any pleasure? For the first or second
month, perhaps, or at most for the year: but then no longer; the admiration
by familiarity wastes away. Meanwhile the evils which arose from the beauty
still abide, the pride, the folly, the contemptuousness. Whereas in one who
is not such, there is nothing of this kind. But the love having begun on just
grounds, still continues ardent, since its object is beauty of soul, and not
of body. What better, tell me, than heaven? What better than the stars? Tell
me of what body you will, yet is there none so fair. Tell me of what eyes you
will, yet are there none so sparkling. When these were created, the very Angels
gazed with wonder, and we gaze with wonder now; yet not in the same degree
as at first. Such is familiarity; things do not strike us in the same degree.
How much more in the case of a wife! And if moreover disease come too, all
is at once fled. Let us seek in a wife affectionateness, modest-mindedness,
gentleness; these are the characteristics of beauty. But loveliness of person
let us not seek, nor upbraid her upon these points, over which she has no power,
nay, rather, let us not upbraid at all, (it were rudeness,) nor let us be impatient,
nor sullen. Do ye not see how many, after living with beautiful wives, have
ended their lives pitiably, and how many, who have lived with those of no great
beauty, have run on to extreme old age with great enjoyment. Let us wipe off
the "spot" that is within, let us smooth the "wrinkles" that
are within, let us do away the "blemishes" that are on the soul.
Such is the beauty God requires. Let us make her fair in God's sight, not in
our own. Let us not look for wealth, nor for that high-birth which is outward,
but for that true nobility which is in the soul. Let no one endure to get rich
by a wife; for such riches are base and disgraceful; no, by no means let any
one seek to get rich from this source. "For they that desire to be rich,
fall into a temptation and a snare, and many foolish and hurtful lusts, and
into destruction and perdition." (1 Tim. vi. 9.) Seek not therefore in
thy wife abundance of wealth, and thou shall find everything else go well.
Who, tell me, would overlook the most important things, to attend to those
which are less so? And yet, alas! this is in every case our feeling. Yes, if
we have a son, we concern ourselves not how he may be made virtuous, but how
we may get him a rich wife; not how he may be well-mannered, but well-monied:[3]
if we follow a business, we enquire not how it may be clear of sin, but how
it may bring us in most profit. And everything has become money; and thus is
everything corrupted and ruined, because that passion possesses us.
Ver. 28. "Even so ought husbands to love their own wives," saith
he, "as their own bodies."
What,
again, means this? To how much greater a similitude, and stronger example
has he come; and not
only
so, but also to one how much nearer and clearer,
and to a fresh obligation. For that other one was of no very constraining force,
for He was Christ, and was God, and gave Himself. He now manages his argument
on a different ground, saying, "so ought men "; because the thing
is not a favor, but a debt. Then, "as their own bodies." And why?
Ver. 29. "For
no man ever hated his own flesh, but nourisheth and cherisheth it."
That is,
tends it with exceeding care. And how is she his flesh? Hearken; "This
now is bone of my bones," saith Adam, "and flesh of my flesh." (Gen.
ii. 23.) For she is made of matter taken from us. And not only so, but also, "they
shall be," saith God, "one flesh." (Gen. ii. 24.)
"Even as Christ also the Church." Here
he returns to the former example.
Ver. 30. "Because we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His
bones."[1]
Ver. 31. "For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and
shall cleave to his wife, and the twain shall become one flesh."[2]
Behold again a third ground of obligation; for he shows that a man leaving
them that begat him, and from whom he was born, is knit to his wife; and that
then the one flesh is, father, and mother, and the child, from the substance
of the two commingled. For indeed by the commingling of their seeds is the
child produced, so that the three are one flesh. Thus then are we in relation
to Christ; we become one flesh by participation, and we much more than the
child. And why and how so? Because so it has been from the beginning.
Tell me
not that such and such things are so. Seest thou not that we have in our
own flesh itself
many defects?
For one man, for instance, is lame, another
has his feet distorted, another his hands withered, another some other member
weak; and yet nevertheless he does not grieve at it, nor cut it off, but oftentimes
prefers it even to the other. Naturally enough; for it is part of himself.
As great love as each entertains towards himself, so great he would have us
entertain towards a wife. Not because we partake of the same nature; no, this
ground of duty towards a wife is far greater than that; it is that there are
not two bodies but one; he the head, she the body. And how saith he elsewhere "and
the Head of Christ is God "? (1 Cor. xi. 3.) This I too say, that as we
are one body, so also are Christ and the Father One. And thus then is the Father
also found to be our Head. He sets down two examples, that of the natural body
and that of Christ's body. And hence he further adds,
Ver. 32. "This is great mystery: but I speak in regard of Christ and
of the Church."[3]
Why does
he call it a great mystery? That it was something great and wonderful, the
blessed Moses,
or rather God,
intimated. For the present, however, saith
he, I speak regarding Christ, that having left the Father, He came down, and
came to the Bride, and became one Spirit. "For he that is joined unto
the Lord is one Spirit." (1 Cor. vi. 17.) And well saith he, "it
is a great mystery." And then as though he were saying, "But still
nevertheless the allegory does not destroy affection," he adds,
Ver. 33. "Nevertheless[4]
do ye also severally love each one his own wife even as himself; and let
the wife see that she fear her husband."
For indeed,
in very deed, a mystery it is, yea, a great mystery, that a man should leave
him that gave
him being,
him that begat him, and that brought
him up, and her that travailed with him and had sorrow, those that have bestowed
upon him so many and great benefits, those with whom he has been in familiar
intercourse, and be joined to one who was never even seen by him and who has
nothing in common with him, and should honor her before all others. A mystery
it is indeed. And yet are parents not distressed when these events take place,
but rather, when they do not take place; and are delighted when their wealth
is spent and lavished upon it.--A great mystery indeed! and one that contains
some hidden wisdom. Such Moses prophetically showed it to be from the very
first; such now also Paul proclaims it, where he saith, "concerning Christ
and the Church."
However
not for the husband's sake alone it is thus said, but for the wife's sake
also, that "he cherish her as his own flesh, as Christ also the Church," and, "that
the wife fear her husband." He is no longer setting down the duties of
love only, but what? "That she fear her husband." The wife is a second
authority; let not her then demand equality, for. she is under the head; nor
let him despise her as being in subjection, for she is the body; and if the
head despise the body, it will itself also perish. But let him bring in love
on his part as a counterpoise to obedience on her part. For example, let the
hands and the feet, and all the rest of the members be given up for service
to the head, but let the head provide for the body, seeing it contains every
sense in itself. Nothing can be better than this union.
And yet
how can there ever be love, one may say, where there is fear? It will exist
there, I say,
preeminently.
For she that fears and reverences, loves
also; and she that loves, fears and reverences him as being the head, and loves
him as being a member, since the head itself is a member of the body at large.
Hence he places the one in subjection, and the other in authority, that there
may be peace; for where there is equal authority there can never be peace;
neither where a house is a democracy, nor where all are rulers; but the ruling
power must of necessity be one. And this is universally the case with matters
referring to the body, inasmuch as when men are spiritual, there will be peace.
There were "five thousand souls," and not one of them said, "that
aught of the things which he possessed was his own" (Acts iv. 32), but
they were subject one to another; an indication this of wisdom, and of the
fear of God. The principle of love, however, he explains; that of fear he does
not. And mark, how on that of love he enlarges, stating the arguments relating
to Christ and those relating to one's own flesh, the words," For this
cause shall a man leave his father and mother." (Ver. 31.) Whereas upon
those drawn from fear he forbears to enlarge. And why so? Because he would
rather that this principle prevail, this, namely, of love; for where this exists,
everything else follows of course, but where the other exists, not necessarily.
For the man who loves his wife, even though she be not a very obedient one,
still will bear with everything. So difficult and impracticable is unanimity,
where persons are not bound together by that love which is founder in supreme
authority; at all events, fear will not necessarily effect this. Accordingly,
he dwells the more upon this, which is the strong tie. And the wife though
seeming to be the loser in that she was charged to fear, is the gainer, because
the principal duty, love, is charged upon the husband. "But what," one
may say, "if a wife reverence me not?" Never mind, thou art to love,
fulfill thine own duty. For though that which is due from others may not follow,
we ought of course to do our duty. This is an example of what I mean. He says, "submitting
yourselves one to another in the fear of Christ." And what then if another
submit not himself? Still obey thou the law of God. Just so, I say, is it also
here. Let the wife at least, though she be not loved, still reverence notwithstanding,
that nothing may lie at her door; and let the husband, though his wife reverence
him not, still show her love notwithstanding, that he himself be not wanting
in any point. For each has received his own.
This then
is marriage when it takes place according to Christ, spiritual marriage,
and spiritual
birth, not of
blood, nor of travail, nor of the will of the flesh.
Such was the birth of Christ, not of blood, nor of travail. Such also was that
of Isaac. Hear how the Scripture saith, "And it ceased to be with Sarah
after the manner of women." (Gen. xviii. 11.) Yea, a marriage it is, not
of passion, nor of the flesh, but wholly spiritual, the soul being united to
God by a union unspeakable, and which He alone knoweth. Therefore he saith, "He
that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit." (1 Cor. vi. 17.) Mark how
earnestly he endeavors to unite both flesh with flesh, and spirit with spirit.
And where are the heretics?[1] Never surely, if marriage were a thing to be
condemned, would he have called Christ and the Church a bride and bridegroom;
never would he have brought forward by way of exhortation the words, "A
man shall leave his father and his mother "; and again have added, that
it was "spoken in regard of Christ and of the Church." For of her
it is that the Psalmist also saith, "Hearken, O daughter, and consider,
and incline thine ear; forget also thine own people, and thy father's house.
So shall the king desire thy beauty." (Ps. xlv. 10, 11.) Therefore also
Christ saith, "I came out from the Father, and am come." (John xvi.
28.) But when I say, that He left the Father, imagine not such a thing as happens
among men, a change of place; for just in the same way as the word "go
forth" is used, not because He literally came forth, but because of His
incarnation, so also is the expression, "He left the Father."
Now why
did he not say of the wife also, She shall be joined unto her husband? Why,
I say, is this?
Because
he was discoursing concerning love, and was discoursing
to the husband. For to her indeed be discourses concerning reverence, and says, "the
husband is the head of the wife" (ver. 23), and again, "Christ is
the Head of the Church." Whereas to him he discourses concerning love,
and commits to him this province of love, and declares to him that which pertains
to love, thus binding him and cementing him to her. For the man that leaves
his father for the sake of his wife, and then again, leaves this very wife
herself and abandons her, what forbearance can he deserve?
Seest
thou not how great a share of honor God would have her enjoy, in that he
hath taken thee away
from thy
father, and hath linked thee to her? What
then, a man may say, if our duty is done, and yet she does not follow the example? "Yet
if the unbelieving departeth, let him depart; the brother or the sister is
not under bondage in such cases." (1 Cor. vii. 15.)
However,
when thou hearest of "fear," demand that fear which becomes
a free woman, not as though thou wert exacting it of a slave. For she is thine
own body; and if thou do this, thou reproachest thyself in dishonoring thine
own body. And of what nature is this "fear"? It is the not contradicting,
the not rebelling, the not being fond of the preëminence. It is enough
that fear be kept within these bounds. But if thou love, as thou art commanded,
thou wilt make it yet greater. Or rather it will not be any longer by fear
that thou wilt be doing this, but love itself will have its effect. The sex
is somehow weaker, and needs much support, much condescension.
But what will they say, who are knit together in second marriages?[1] I speak
not at all in condemnation of them, God forbid; for the Apostle himself permits
them, though indeed by way of condescension.
Supply her with everything. Do everything and endure trouble for her sake.
Necessity is laid upon thee.
Here he
does not think it right to introduce his counsel, as he in many cases does,
with examples
from them
that are without. That of Christ, so great and
forcible, were alone enough; and more especially as regards the argument of
subjection. "A man shall leave," he saith, "his father and mother." Behold,
this then is from without. But he does not say, and "shall dwell with," but "shall
cleave unto," thus showing the closeness of the union, and the fervent
love. Nay, he is not content with this, but further by what he adds, he explains
the subjection in such a way as that the twain appear no longer twain. He does
not say, "one spirit," he does not say, "one soul" (for
that is manifest, and is possible to any one), but so as to be "one flesh." She
is a second authority, possessing indeed an authority, and a considerable equality
of dignity; but at the same time the husband has somewhat of superiority. In
this consists most chiefly the well-being of the house. For he took that former
argument, the example of Christ, to show that we ought not only to love, but
also to govern; "that she may be," saith he, "holy and without
blemish." But the word "flesh" has reference to love--and the
word "shall cleave" has in like manner reference to love. For if
thou shalt make her "holy and without blemish," everything else will
follow. Seek the things which are of God, and those which are of man will follow
readily enough. Govern thy wife, and thus will the whole house be in harmony.
Hear what Paul saith. "And if they would learn any thing, let them ask
their own husbands at home." (1 Cor. xiv. 35.) If we thus regulate our
own houses, we shall be also fit for the management of the Church. For indeed
a house is a little Church. Thus it is possible for us by becoming good husbands
and wives, to surpass all others.
Consider
Abraham, and Sarah, and Isaac, and the three hundred and eighteen born in
his house. (Gen.
xiv. 14.)
How the whole house was harmoniously knit
together, how the whole was full of piety and fulfilled the Apostolic injunction.
She also "reverenced her husband"; for hear her own words, "It
hath not yet happened unto me even until now, and my lord is old also." (Gen.
xviii. 12.)[2] And he again so loved her, that in all things he obeyed her
commands. And the young child was virtuous, and the servants born in the house,
they too were so excellent that they refused not even to hazard their lives
with their master; they delayed not, nor asked the reason. Nay, one of them,
the chief, was so admirable, that he was even entrusted with the marriage of
the only-begotten child, and with a journey into a foreign country. (Gen. xxiv.
1-67.) For just as with a general, when his soldiery also is well organized,
the enemy has no quarter to attack; so, I say, is it also here: when husband
and wife and children and servants are all interested in the same things, great
is the harmony of the house. Since where this is not the case, the whole is
oftentimes overthrown and broken up by one bad servant; and that single one
will often mar and utterly destroy the whole.
MORAL.
Let us then be very thoughtful both for our wives, and children, and servants;
knowing that
we shall thus
be establishing for ourselves an easy
government, and shall have our accounts with them gentle and lenient, and say, "Behold
I, and the children which God hath given me." (Isa. viii. 18.) If the
husband command respect, and the head be honorable, then will the rest of the
body sustain no violence. Now what is the wife's fitting behavior, and what
the husband's, he states accurately, charging her to reverence him as the head,
and him to love her as a wife; but how, it may be said, can these things be?
That they ought indeed so to be, he has proved. But how they can be so, I will
tell you. They will be so, if we will despise money, if we will look but to
one thing only, excellence of soul, if we will keep the fear of God before
our eyes. For what he says in his discourse to servants, "whatsoever any
man doeth, whether it be good or evil, the same shall he receive of the Lord" (Eph.
vi. 8); this is also the case here. Love her therefore not for her sake so
much as for Christ's sake. This, at least, he as much as intimates, in saying, "as
unto the Lord." So then do everything, as in obedience to the Lord, and
as doing everything for His sake. This were enough to induce and to persuade
us, and not to suffer that there should be any teasing and dissension. Let
none be believed when slandering the husband to his wife; no, nor let the husband
believe anything at random against the wife, nor let the wife be without reason
inquisitive about his goings out and his comings in. No, nor on any account
let the husband ever render himself worthy of any suspicion whatever. For what,
tell me, what if thou shall devote thyself all the day to thy friends, and
give the evening to thy wife, and not even thus be able to content her, and
place her out of reach of suspicion? Though thy wife complain, yet be not annoyed--it
is her love, not her folly--they are the complaints of fervent attachment,
and burning affection, and fear. Yes, she is afraid lest any one have stolen
her marriage bed, lest any one have injured her in that which is the summit
of her blessings, lest any one have taken away from her him who is her head,
lest any one have broken through her marriage chamber.
There
is also another ground of petty jealousy. Let neither claim too much service
of the servants,
neither
the husband from the maid-servant, nor the
wife from the man-servant. For these things also are enough to beget suspicion.
For consider, I say, that righteous household I spoke of. Sarah herself bade
the patriarch take Hagar. She herself directed it, no one compelled her, nor
did the husband[1] attempt it; no, although he had dragged on so long a period
childless, yet he chose never to become a father, rather than to grieve his
wife. And yet even after all this, what said Sarah? "The Lord judge between
me and thee." (Gen. xvi. 5.) Now, I say, had he been any one else would
he not have been moved to anger? Would he not also have stretched forth his
hand, saying as it were, "What meanest thou? I had no desire to have anything
to do with the woman; it was all thine own doing; and dost thou turn again
and accuse me?"--But no, he says nothing of the sort;--but what? "Behold,
thy maid is in thy hand; do to her that which is good in thine eyes." (Gen.
xvi. 6.) He delivered up the partner of his bed, that he might not grieve Sarah.
And yet surely is there nothing greater than this for producing affection.
For if partaking of the same table produces unanimity even in robbers towards
their foes, (and the Psalmist[2] saith, "Who didst eat sweet food at the
same table with me"); much more will the becoming one flesh--for such
is the being the partner of the bed--be effectual to draw us together. Yet
did none of these things avail to overcome him; but he delivered Hagar up to
his wife, to show that nothing had been done by his own fault. Nay, and what
is more, he sent her forth when with child. Who would not have pitied one that
had conceived a child by himself? Yet was the just man unmoved, for he set
before everything else the love he owed his wife.
Let us then imitate him ourselves. Let no one reproach his neighbor with his
poverty; let no one be in love with money; and then all difficulties will be
at an end.
Neither
let a wife say to her husband, "Unmanly coward that thou art,
full of sluggishness and dullness, and fast asleep! here is such a one, a low
man, and of low parentage, who runs his risks, and makes his voyages, and has
made a good fortune; and his wife wears her jewels, and goes out with her pair
of milk-white mules;[3] she rides about everywhere, she has troops of slaves,
and a swarm of eunuchs, but thou hast cowered down and livest to no purpose." Let
not a wife say these things, nor anything like them. For she is the body, not
to dictate to the head, but to submit herself and obey. "But how," some
one will say, "is she to endure poverty? Where is she to look for consolation?" Let
her select and put beside her those who are poorer still. Let her again consider
how many noble and high-born maidens have not only received nothing of their
husbands, but have even given dowries to them, and have spent their all upon
them. Let her reflect on the perils which arise from such riches, and she will
cling to this quiet life. In short, if she is affectionately disposed towards
her husband, she will utter nothing of the sort. No, she will rather choose
to have him near her, though gaining nothing, than gaining ten thousand talents
of gold, accompanied with that care and anxiety which always arise to wives
from those distant voyages.
Neither,
however, let the husband, when he hears these things, on the score of his
having the supreme
authority,
betake himself to revilings and to blows;
but let him exhort, let him admonish her, as being less perfect, let him persuade
her with arguments. Let him never once lift his hand,--far be this from a noble
spirit,--no, nor give expression to insults, or taunts, or revilings; but let
him regulate and direct her as being wanting in wisdom. Yet how shall this
be done? If she be instructed in the true riches, in the heavenly philosophy,
she will make no complaints like these. Let him teach her then, that poverty
is no evil. Let him teach her, not by what he says only, but also by what he
does. Let him teach her to despise glory; and then his wife will speak of nothing,
and will desire nothing of the kind. Let him, as if he had an image given into
his hands to mould, let him, from that very evening on which he first receives
her into the bridal chamber, teach her temperance, gentleness, and how to live,
casting down the love of money at once from the outset, and from the very threshold.
Let him discipline her in wisdom, and advise her never to have bits of gold
hanging at her ears, and down her cheeks, and laid round about her neck, nor
laid up about the chamber, nor golden and costly garments stored up. But let
her chamber be handsome, still let not what is handsome degenerate into finery.
No, leave these things to the people of the stage. Adorn thine house thyself
with all possible neatness, so as rather to breathe an air of soberness than
much perfume. For hence will arise two or three good results. First then, the
bride will not be grieved, when the apartments are opened, and the tissues,
and the golden ornaments, and silver vessels, are sent back to their several
owners. Next, the bridegroom will have no anxiety about the loss, nor for the
security of the accumulated treasures. Thirdly again, in addition to this,
which is the crown of all these benefits, by these very points he will be showing
his own judgment, that indeed he has no pleasure in any of these things, and
that he will moreover put an end to everything else in keeping with them, and
will never so much as allow the existence either of dances, or of immodest
songs. I am aware that I shall appear perhaps ridiculous to many persons, in
giving such admonitions. Still nevertheless, if ye will but listen to me, as
time goes on, and the benefit of the practice accrues to you, then ye will
understand the advantage of it. And the laughter will pass off, and ye will
laugh at the present fashion, and will see that the present practice is really
that of silly children and of drunken men. Whereas what I recommend is the
part of soberness, and wisdom, and of the sublimest way of life. What then
do I say is our duty? Take away from marriage all those shameful, those Satanic,
those immodest songs, those companies of profligate young people, and this
will avail to chasten the spirit of thy bride.[1] For she will at once thus
reason with herself; "Wonderful! What a philosopher this man is! he regards
the present life as nothing, he has brought me here into his house, to be a
mother, to bring up his children, to manage his household affairs." "Yes,
but these things are distasteful to a bride?" Just for the first or second
day;--but not afterwards; nay, she will even reap from them the greatest delight,
and relieve herself of all suspicion. For a man who can endure neither flute-players,
nor dancers, nor broken songs,[2] and that too at the very time of his wedding,
that man will scarcely endure ever to do or say anything shameful. And then
after this, when thou hast stripped the marriage of all these things, then
take her, and form and mould her carefully, encouraging her bashfulness to
a considerable length of time, and not destroying it suddenly. For even if
the damsel be very bold, yet for a time she will keep silence out of reverence
for her husband, and feeling herself a novice in the circumstances. Thou then
break not off this reserve too hastily, as unchaste husbands do, but encourage
it for a long time. For this will be a great advantage to thee. Meanwhile she
will not complain, she will not find fault with any laws thou mayest frame
for her. During that time therefore, during which shame, like a sort of bridle
laid upon the soul, suffers her not to make any murmur, nor to complain of
what is done, lay down all thy laws. For as soon as ever she acquires boldness,
she will overturn and confound everything without any sense of fear. When is
there then another time so advantageous for moulding a wife, as that during
which she reverences her husband, and is still timid, and still shy? Then lay
down all thy laws for her, and willing or unwilling, she will certainly obey
them. But how shalt thou help spoiling her modesty? By showing her that thou
thyself art no less modest than she is, addressing to her but few words, and
those too with great gravity and collectedness. Then entrust her with the discourses
of wisdom, for her soul will receive them. And establish her in that loveliest
habit, I mean modesty. If you wish me, I will also tell you by way of specimen,
what sort of language should be addressed to her. For if Paul shrank not from
saying, "Defraud ye not one the other" (2 Cor. vii. 5), and spoke
the language of a bridesmaid, or rather not of a bridesmaid, but of a spiritual
soul, much more will not we shrink from speaking. What then is the language
we ought to address to her? With great delicacy then we may say to her, "I
have taken thee, my child, to be partner of my life, and have brought thee
in to share with me in the closest and most honorable ties, in my children,
and the superintendence of my house. And what advice then shall I now recommend
thee?" But rather, first talk with her of your love for her; for there
is nothing that so contributes to persuade a hearer to admit sincerely the
things that are said, as to be assured that they are said with hearty affection.
How then art thou to show that affection? By saying, "when it was in my
power to take many to wife, both with better fortunes, and of noble family,
I did not so choose, but I was enamoured of thee, and thy beautiful life, thy
modesty, thy gentleness, and soberness of mind." Then immediately from
these beginnings open the way to your discourse on true wisdom, and with some
circumlocution make a protest against riches. For if you direct your argument
at once against riches, you will bear too heavily upon her; but if you do it
by taking an occasion, you will succeed entirely. For you will appear to be
doing it in the way of an apology, not as a morose sort of person, and ungracious,
and over-nice about trifles. But when you take occasion from what relates to
herself, she will be even pleased. You will say then, (for I must now take
up the discourse again,) that "whereas I might have married a rich woman,
and with good fortune, I could not endure it. And why so? Not capriciously,
and without reason; but I was taught well and truly, that money is no real
possession, but a most despicable thing, a thing which moreover belongs as
well to thieves, and to harlots, and to grave-robbers. So I gave up these things,
and went on till I fell in with the excellence of thy soul, which I value above
all gold. For a young damsel who is discreet and ingenuous, and whose heart
is set on piety, is worth the whole world. For these reasons then, I courted
thee, and I love thee, and prefer thee to my own soul. For the present life
is nothing. And I pray, and beseech, and do all I can, that we may be counted
worthy so to live this present life, as that we may be able also there in the
world to come to be united to one another in perfect security. For our time
here is brief and fleeting. But if we shall be counted worthy by having pleased
God to so exchange this life for that one, then shall we ever be both with
Christ and with each other, with more abundant pleasure. I value thy affection
above all things, and nothing is so bitter or so painful to me, as ever to
be at variance with thee. Yes, though it should be my lot to lose my all, and
to become poorer than Irus,[1] and undergo the extremest hazards, and suffer
any pain whatsoever, all will be tolerable and endurable, so long as thy feelings
are true towards me. And then will my children be most dear to me, whilst thou
art affectionately disposed towards me. But thou must do these duties too." Then
mingle also with your discourse the Apostle's words, that "thus God would
have our affections blended together; for listen to the Scripture, which saith,
'For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his
wife.' Let us have no pretext for narrow-minded jealousy.[2] Perish riches,
and retinue of slaves, and all your outward pomps. To me this is more valuable
than all." What weight of gold, what amount of treasures, are so dear
to a wife as these words? Never fear that because she is beloved she will ever
rave against thee, but confess that thou lovest her. For courtezans indeed,
who now attach themselves to one and now to another, would naturally enough
feel contempt towards their lovers, should they hear such expressions as these;
but a free-born wife or a noble damsel would never be so affected with such
words; no, she will be so much the more subdued. Show her too, that you set
a high value on her company, and that you are more desirous to be at home for
her sake, than in the market-place. And esteem her before all your friends,
and above the children that are born of her, and let these very children be
beloved by thee for her sake. If she does any good act, praise and admire it;
if any foolish one, and such as girls may chance to do, advise her and remind
her. Condemn out and out all riches and extravagance, and gently point out
the ornament that there is in neatness and in modesty; and be continually teaching
her the things that are profitable.
Let your prayers be common.[3] Let each go to Church; and let the husband
ask his wife at home, and she again ask her husband, the account of the things
which were said and read there. If any poverty should overtake you, cite the
case of those holy men, Paul and Peter, who were more honored than any kings
or rich men; and yet how they spent their lives, in hunger and in thirst. Teach
her that there is nothing in life that is to be feared, save only offending
against God. If any marry thus, with these views, he will be but little inferior
to monks; the married but little below the unmarried.
If thou
hast a mind to give dinners, and to make entertainments, let there be nothing
immodest,
nothing disorderly.
If thou shouldest find any poor saint
able to bless your house, able only just by setting his foot in it to bring
in the whole blessing of God, invite him. And shalt I say moreover another
thing? Let no one of you make it his endeavor to marry a rich woman, but much
rather a poor one. When she comes in, she will not bring so great a source
of pleasure from her riches, as she will annoyance from her taunts, from her
demanding more than she brought, from her insolence, her extravagance, her
vexatious language. For she will say perhaps, "I have not yet spent anything
of thine, I am still wearing my own apparel, bought with what my parents settled
upon me." What sayest thou, O woman? Still wearing thine own! And what
can be more miserable than this language? Why, thou hast no longer a body of
thine own, and hast thou money of thine own? After marriage ye are no longer
twain, but are become one flesh, and are then your possessions twain, and not
one? Oh! this love of money! Ye both are become one man, one living creature;
and dost thou still say "mine own"? Cursed and abominable word that
it is, it was brought in by the devil. Things far nearer and dearer to us than
these hath God made all common to us, and are these then not common? We cannot
say, "my own light, my own sun, my own water": all our greater blessings
are common, and are riches not common? Perish the riches ten thousand times
over! Or rather not the riches, but those tempers of mind which know not how
to make use of riches, but esteem them above all things.
Teach
her these lessons also with the rest, but with much graciousness. For since
the recommendation
of virtue
has in itself much that is stern, and especially
to a young and tender damsel, whenever discourses on true wisdom are to be
made, contrive that your manner be full of grace and kindness. And above all
banish this notion from her soul, of "mine and thine." If she say
the word "mine," say unto her, "What things dost thou call thine?
For in truth I know not; I for my part have nothing of mine own. How then speakest
thou of 'mine,' when all things are thine?" Freely grant her the word.
Dost thou not perceive that such is our practice with children? When, whilst
we are holding anything, a child snatches it, and wishes again to get hold
of some other thing, we allow it, and say, "Yes, and this is thine, and
that is thine." The same also let us do with a wife; for her temper is
more or less like a child's; and if she says "mine," say, "why,
everything is thine, and I am thine." Nor is the expression one of flattery,
but of exceeding wisdom. Thus wilt thou be able to abate her wrath, and put
an end to her disappointment. For it is flattery when a man does an unworthy
act with an evil object: whereas this is the highest philosophy. Say then, "Even
I am thine, my child; this advice Paul gives me where he says, ' The husband
hath not power over his own body, but the wife.' (1 Cor. vii. 4.) If I have
no power over my body, but thou hast, much more hast thou over my possessions." By
saying these things thou wilt have quieted her, thou wilt have quenched the
fire, thou wilt have shamed the devil, thou wilt have made her more thy slave
than one bought with money, with this language thou wilt have bound her fast.
Thus then, by thine own language, teach her never to speak of "mine and
thine." And again, never call her simply by her name, but with terms of
endearment, with honor, with much love. Honor her, and she will not need honor
from others; she will not want the glory that comes from others, if she enjoys
that which comes from thee. Prefer her before all, on every account, both for
her beauty and her discernment, and praise her. Thou wilt thus persuade her
to give heed to none that are without, but to scorn all the world except thyself.
Teach her the fear of God, and all good things will flow from this as from
a fountain, and the house will be full of ten thousand blessings. If we seek
the things that are incorruptible, these corruptible things will follow. "For," saith
He, "seek first His kingdom, and all these things shall be added unto
you." (Matt. vi. 33.) What sort of persons, think you, must the children
of such parents be? What the servants of such masters? What all others who
come near them? Will not they too eventually be loaded with blessings out of
number? For generally the servants also have their characters formed after
their master's, and are fashioned after their humors, love the same objects,
which they have been taught to love, speak the same language, and engage with
them in the same pursuits. If thus we regulate ourselves, and attentively study
the Scriptures, in most things we shall derive instruction from them. And thus
shall be able to please God, and to pass through the whole of the present life
virtuously, and to attain those blessings which are promised to those that
love Him, of which God grant that we may all be counted worthy, through the
grace and lovingkindness of our Lord Jesus Christ, with Whom, together with
the Holy Ghost, be unto the Father, glory, power, and honor, now, and ever,
through all ages. Amen.
HOMILY XXI.
EPHESIANS VI. VERSES 1--4.
Verses
1--3. "Children,
obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor thy father and mother
(which is the first commandment with promise),
that it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth."
As a man in forming a body, places the head first, after that the neck, then
the feet, so does the blessed Paul proceed in his discourse. He has spoken
of the husband, he has spoken of the wife, who is second in authority, he now
goes on by gradual advances to the third rank--which is that of children. For
the husband has authority over the wife, and the husband and the wife over
the children. Now then mark what he is saying.
"Children,[1]
obey your parents in the Lord; for this is the first commandment with promise."
Here he
has not a word of discourse concerning Christ, not a word on high subjects,
for he is as
yet addressing
his discourse to tender understandings.
And it is for this reason, moreover, that he makes his exhortation short, inasmuch
as children cannot follow up a long argument. For this reason also he does
not discourse at all about a kingdom, (because it does not belong to the tender
age of childhood to understand these subjects,) but what a child's soul most
especially longs to hear, that he says, namely, that it shall "live long." For
if any one shall enquire why it is that he omitted to discourse concerning
a kingdom, but set before them the commandment laid down in the law, he does
this because he speaks to them as infantile, and because he is well aware that
if the husband and the wife are thus disposed according to the law which he
has laid down, there will be but little trouble in securing the submission
of the children. For whenever any matter has a good and sound and orderly principle
and foundation, everything will thenceforward go on with method and regularity,
with much facility: the more difficult thing is to settle the foundation, to
lay down a firm basis. "Children," saith he, "obey your parents
in the Lord," that is, according to the Lord. This, he means to say, is
what God[2] commands you. But what then if they shall command foolish things?
Generally a father, however foolish he may be himself, does not command foolish
things. However, even in that case, the Apostle has guarded the matter, by
saying, "in the Lord"; that is, wherever you will not be offending
against God. So that if the father be a gentile or a heretic, we ought no longer
to obey, because the command is not then, "in the Lord." But how
is it that he says, "Which is the first commandment"? For the first
is, "Thou shalt not commit adultery;--Thou shalt not kill." He does
not speak of it then as first in rank,[3] but in respect of the promise. For
upon those others there is no reward annexed, as being enacted with reference
to evil things, and to departure from evil things. Whereas in these others,
where there is the practice of good, there is further a promise held out. And
observe how admirable a foundation he has laid for the path of virtue, that
is, honor and reverence towards parents. When he would lead us away from wicked
practices, and is just about to enter upon virtuous ones, this is the first
thing he enjoins, honor towards parents; inasmuch as they before all others
are, after God, the authors of our being, so that it is reasonable they should
be the first to reap the fruits of our right actions; and then all the rest
of mankind. For if a man have not this honor for parents he will never be gentle
toward those unconnected with him.
However, having given the necessary injunctions to children, he passes to
the fathers, and says,
Ver. 4. "And
ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath; but nurture them up in the
chastening
and admonition
of the Lord."
He does
not say, "love them," because to this nature draws them
even against their own will, and it were superfluous to lay down a law on such
subjects. But what does he say? "Provoke not your children to wrath," as
many do by disinheriting them, and disowning them, and treating them overbearingly,
not as free, but as slaves. This is why he says, "Provoke not your children
to wrath." Then, which is the chief thing of all, he shows how they will
be led to obedience, referring the whole source of it to the head and chief
authority. And in the same way as he has shown the husband to be the cause
of the wife's obedience, (which is the reason also why he addresses the greater
part of his arguments to him, advising him to attach her to himself by the
power of love,) so, I say, here also, he refers the efficiency to him, by saying, "But
bring them up in the chastening and admonition of the Lord." Thou seest
that where there are spiritual ties, the natural ties will follow. Do you wish
your son to be obedient? From the very first "Bring him up in the chastening
and admonition of the Lord." Never deem it an unnecessary thing that he
should be a diligent hearer of the divine Scriptures. For there the first thing
he hears will be this, "Honor thy father and thy mother"; so that
this makes for thee. Never say, this is the business of monks. Am I making
a monk of him? No. There is no need he should become a monk.[1] Why be so afraid
of a thing so replete with so much advantage? Make him a Christian. For it
is of all things necessary for laymen[2] to be acquainted with the lessons
derived from this source; but especially for children. For theirs is an age
full of folly; and to this folly are super added the bad examples derived from
the heathen tales, where they are made acquainted with those heroes so admired
amongst them, slaves of their passions, and cowards with regard to death; as,
for example, Achilles, when he relents, when he dies for his concubine, when
another gets drunk, and many other things of the sort. He requires therefore
the remedies against these things. How is it not absurd to send children out
to trades, and to school, and to do all you can for these objects, and yet,
not to "bring them up in the chastening and admonition of the Lord "?
And for this reason truly we are the first to reap the fruits, because we bring
up our children to be insolent and profligate, disobedient, and mere vulgar
fellows. Let us not then do this; no, let us listen to this blessed Apostle's
admonition. "Let us bring them up in the chastening and admonition of
the Lord." Let us give them a pattern. Let us make them from the earliest
age apply themselves to the reading of the Scriptures. Alas, that so constantly
as I repeat this, I am looked upon as trifling! Still, I shall not cease to
do my duty. Why, tell me, do ye not imitate them of old? Ye women, especially,
emulate those admirable women. Has a child been born to any one? Imitate Hannah's
example (1 Sam. i. 24); look at what she did. She brought him up at once to
the temple. Who amongst you would not rather that his son should become a Samuel
than that he should be king of the whole world ten thousand times over? "And
how," you will say, "is it possible he should become such a one?" Why
is it not possible? It is because thou dost not choose it thyself, nor committest
him to the care of those who are able to make him such a one. "And who," it
will be said, "is such a one as this?" God. Since she put him into
the hands of God. For not even Eli himself was one of those in any great degree
qualified to form him; (how could he be, he who was not able to form even his
own children?) No, it was the faith of the mother and her earnest zeal that
wrought the whole. He was her first child, and her only one, and she knew not
whether she should ever have others besides. Yet she did not say, "I will
wait till the child is grown up, that he may have a taste of the things of
this life, I will allow him to have his pastime in them a little in his childish
years." No, all these thoughts the woman repudiated, she was absorbed
in one object, how from the very beginning she might dedicate the spiritual
image[3] to God. Well may we men be put to the blush at the wisdom of this
woman. She offered him up to God, and there she left him. And therefore was
her married state more glorious, in that she had made spiritual objects her
first care, in that she dedicated the first-fruits to God. Therefore was her
womb fruitful, and she obtained other children besides.[4] And therefore she
saw him honorable even in. the world. For if men when they are honored, render
honor in return, will not God much more, He who does this, even without being
honored? How long are we to be mere lumps of flesh? How long are we to be stooping
to the earth? Let everything be secondary with us to the provident care we
should take of our children, and to our "bringing them up in the chastening
and admonition of the Lord." If from the very first he is taught to be
a lover of true wisdom, then wealth greater than all wealth has he acquired
and a more imposing name. You will effect nothing so great by teaching him
an art, and giving him that outward learning by which he will gain riches,
as if you teach him the art of despising riches. If you desire to make him
rich, do this. For the rich man is not he who desires great riches, and is
encircled with great riches; but the man who has need of nothing.[5] Discipline
your son in this, teach him this. This is the greatest riches. Seek not how
to give him reputation and high character in outward learning, but consider
deeply how you shall teach him to despise the glory that belongs to this present
life. By this means would he become more distinguished and more truly glorious.
This it is possible for the poor man and the rich man alike to accomplish.
These are lessons which a man does not learn from a master, nor by art, but
by means of the divine oracles. Seek not how he shall enjoy a long life here,
but how he shall enjoy a boundless and endless life hereafter. Give him the
great things, not the little things. Hear what Paul saith, "Bring them
up in the chastening and admonition of the Lord "; study not to make him
an orator, but train him up to be a philosopher. In the want of the one there
will be no harm whatever; in the absence of the other, all the rhetoric in
the world will be of no advantage. Tempers are wanted, not talking; character,
not cleverness; deeds, not words. These gain a man the kingdom. These confer
what are benefits indeed. Whet not his tongue, but cleanse his soul. I do not
say this to prevent your teaching him these things, but to prevent your attending
to them exclusively. Do not imagine that the monk alone stands in need of these
lessons from Scripture. Of all others, the children just about to enter into
the world specially need them. For just in the same way as the man who is always
at anchor in harbor, is not the man who requires his ship to be fitted out
and who needs a pilot and a crew, but he who is always out at sea; so is it
with the man of the world and the monk. The one is entered as it were into
a waveless harbor, and lives an untroubled life, and far removed from every
storm; whilst the other is ever on the ocean, and lives out at sea in the very
midst of the ocean, battling with billows without number.
And though
he may not need it himself, still he ought to be so prepared as to stop the
mouths of
others.[1] Thus
the more distinguished he is in the present
life, so much the more he stands in need of this education. If he passes his
life in courts, there are many Heathens, and philosophers, and persons puffed
up with the glory of this life. It is like a place full of dropsical people.
Such in some sort is the court. All are, as it were, puffed up, and in a state
of inflammation. And they who are not so are studying to become so. Now then
reflect how vast a benefit it is, that your son on entering there, should enter
like an excellent physician, furnished with instruments which may allay every
one's peculiar inflammation, and should go up to every one, and converse with
him, and restore the diseased body to health, applying the remedies derived
from the Scriptures, and pouring forth discourses of the true philosophy. For
with whom is the recluse to converse? with his wall and his ceiling? yea, or
again with the wilderness and the woods? or with the birds and the trees? He
therefore has not so great need of this sort of discipline. Still, however,
he makes it his business to perfect this work, not so much with a view of disciplining
others as himself. There is then every need of much discipline of this sort
to those that are to mix in the present world, because such an one has a stronger
temptation to sin than the other. And if you have a mind to understand it,
he will further be a more useful person even in the world itself. For all will
have a reverence for him from these words, when they see him in the fire without
being burnt, and not desirous of power. But power he will then obtain, when
he least desires it, and will be a still higher object of respect to the king;
for it is not possible that such a character should be hid. Amongst a number
of healthy persons, indeed, a healthy man will not be noticed; but when there
is one healthy man amongst a number of sick, the report will quickly spread
and reach the king's ears, and he will make him ruler over many nations. Knowing
then these things, "bring up your children in the chastening and admonition
of the Lord."
"But suppose a man is poor." Still
he will be in no wise more insignificant than the man who lives in kings'
courts, because he is not in kings' courts;
no, he will be held in admiration, and will soon gain that authority which
is yielded voluntarily, and not by any compulsion. For if a set of Greeks,
men worthless as they are, and dogs,[2] by taking up that worthless philosophy
of theirs, (for such the Grecian philosophy is,) or rather not itself but only
its mere name, and wearing the threadbare cloak, and letting their hair grow,
impress many; how much more will he who is a true philosopher? If a false appearance,
if a mere shadow of philosophy at first sight so catches us, what if we should
love the true and pure philosophy? Will not all court it, and entrust both
houses, and wives, and children, with full confidence to such men? But there
is not, no, there is not such a philosopher existing now. And therefore, it
is not possible to find an example of the sort. Amongst recluses, indeed, there
are such, but amongst people in the world no longer. And that amongst recluses
there are such, it would be possible to adduce a number of instances. However,
I will mention one out of many. Ye know, doubtless, and have heard of, and
some, perhaps, have also seen, the man. whom I am now about to mention. I mean,
the admirable Julian. This man was a rustic, in humble life, and of humble
parentage, and totally uninstructed in all outward accomplishments, but full
of unadorned wisdom.[3] When he came into the cities, (and this was but rarely,)
never did such a concourse take place, not when orators, or sophists, or any
one else rode in. But what am I saying? Is not his very name more glorious
than that of any king's, and celebrated even to this day? And if these things
were in this world, in the world in which the Lord promised us no one good
thing, in which He hath told us we are strangers, let us consider how great
will be the blessings laid up for us in the heavens. If, where they were sojourners
they enjoyed so great honor, how great glory shall they enjoy where their own
city is! If, where He promised tribulation, they meet with such attentive care,
then where He promises true honors, how great shall be their rest!
And now
would ye have me exhibit examples of secular men? At present, indeed, we
have none; still
there are
perhaps even secular men who are excellent, though
not arrived at the highest philosophy. I shall therefore quote you examples
from the saints of the ancient times. How many, who had wives to keep and children
to bring up, were inferior in no respect, no, in no respect to those who have
been mentioned? Now, however, it is no longer so, "by reason of the present
distress" (1 Cor. vii. 26), as this blessed Apostle saith. Now then whom
would ye have me mention? Noah, or Abraham? The son of the one or of the other?
Or again, Joseph? Or would ye have me go to the Prophets? Moses I mean, or
Isaiah? However, if you will, let us carry our discourse to Abraham, whom all
are continually bringing forward to us above all others. Had he not a wife?
Had he not children? Yes, for I too use the same language to you, as you do
to me. He had a wife, but it was not because he had a wife that he was so remarkable.
He had riches, but it was not because he had riches that he pleased God. He
begat children, but it was not because he begat children that he was pronounced
blessed. He had three hundred and eighteen servants born in his house, but
it was not on this account that he was accounted wonderful. But would you know
why it was? It was for his hospitality, for his contempt of riches, for his
chastened conduct. For what, tell me, is the duty of a philosopher? Is it not
to despise both riches and glory? Is it not to be above both envy and every
other passion? Come now then, let us bring him forward and strip him, and show
you what a philosopher he was. First of all, he esteemed his fatherland as
nothing. God said, "Get thee out of thy country, and from thy kindred" (Gen.
xii. 1), and immediately he went forth. He was not bound to his house, (or
surely he would never have gone forth,) nor to his love of familiar friends,
nor to anything else whatever. But what? glory and money he despised above
all others. For when he had put an end to war by turning the enemy to flight,
and was requested to take the spoil, he rejected it. (Gen. xiv. 21-23.)
Again, the son of this great man was reverenced, not because of his riches,
but for his hospitality: not because of his children, but for his obedience:
not because of his wife, but for the barrenness inflicted on his wife. (Gen.
XXV. 21.)
They looked
upon the present life as nothing, they followed not after gain, they despised
all things.
Tell
me, which sort of plants are the best? Are not
those which have their strength from themselves and are injured neither by
rains, nor by hailstorms, nor by gusts of wind, nor by any other vicissitude
of the sort, but stand naked in defiance of them all, and needing neither wall
nor fence to protect them? Such is the true philosopher, such is that wealth
of which we spoke. He has nothing, and has all things: he has all things, and
has nothing. For a fence is not within, but only without; a wall is not a thing
of nature, but only built round from without. And what again, I ask, what sort
of body is a strong one? Is it not that which is in health, and which is overcome
neither by hunger nor repletion, nor by cold, nor by heat; or is it that which
in view of all these things, needs both caterers, and weavers, and hunters,
and physicians, to give it health? He is the rich man, the true philosopher,
who needeth none of these things. For this cause it was that this blessed Apostle
said, "Bring them up in the chastening and admonition of the Lord." Surround
them not with outward defenses. For such is wealth, such is glory; for when
these fall, and they do fall, the plant stands naked and defenseless, not only
having derived no profit from them during the time past, but even injury. For
those very shelters that prevented its being inured to the attacks of the winds,
will now have prepared it for perishing all at once. And so wealth is injurious
rather, because it renders us undisciplined for the vicissitudes of life. Let
us therefore train up our children to be such, that they shall be able to bear
up against every trial, and not be surprised at what may come upon them; "let
us bring them up in the chastening and admonition of the Lord." And great
will be the reward which will be thus laid up in store for us. For if men for
making statues and painting portraits of kings enjoy so great honor, shall
not we who adorn the image of the King of kings, (for man is the image of God,)
receive ten thousand blessings, if we effect a true likeness? For the likeness
is in this, in the virtue of the soul, when we train our children to be good,
to be meek, to be forgiving, (because all these are attributes of God,) to
be beneficent, to be humane; when we train them to regard the present world
as nothing. Let this then be our task, to mold and to direct both ourselves
and them according to what is right. Otherwise with what sort of boldness shall
we stand before the judgment-seat of Christ? If a man who has unruly children
is unworthy to be a Bishop (Tit. i. 6), much more is he unworthy of the kingdom
of Heaven. What sayest thou? If we have an unruly wife, or unruly children,
shall we have to render account? Yes, we shall, if we do not with exactness
bring in that which is due from ourselves; for our own individual virtue is
not enough in order to salvation. If the man who laid aside the one talent
gained nothing, but was punished even in such a manner, it is plain that one's
own individual virtue is not enough in order to salvation, but there is need
of that of another also. Let us therefore entertain great solicitude for our
wives, and take great care of our children, and of our servants, and of ourselves.
And in our government both of ourselves and of them, let us beseech God that
He aid us in the work. If He shall see us interested in this work, and solicitous
about it, He will aid us; but if He shall see us paying no regard to it, He
will not give us His hand. For He does not vouchsafe us His assistance when
we sleep, but when we labor also ourselves. For a helper, (as the name implies,)
is not a helper of one that is inactive, but of one who works also himself.
But the good God is able of Himself to bring the work to perfection, that we
may be all counted worthy to attain to the blessings promised us, through the
grace and compassions of His only begotten Son, with Whom together with the
Holy Ghost be unto the Father, glory, might, and honor, now and ever, and throughout
all ages. Amen.
HOMILY XXII.
EPHESIANS VI. VERSES 5--13.
Verses
5--8. "Servants,
be obedient unto them that, according to the flesh, are your masters, with
fear
and trembling, in singleness of your heart,
as unto Christ; not in the way of eye-service, as men-pleasers: but as servants
of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart; with good-will doing service,
as unto the Lord, and not unto men: knowing that whatsoever good thing each
one doeth, the same shall he receive again from the Lord, whether he be bond
or free."
THUS then
it is not husband only, nor wife, nor children, but virtuous servants also
that contribute
to the
organization and protection of a house. Therefore
the blessed Paul has not overlooked this department even. He comes to it, however,
in the last place, because it is last in dignity and rank. Still he addresses
much discourse also to them, no longer in the same tone as to children, but
in a far more advanced way, inasmuch as he does not hold out to these the promise
in this world, but in that which is to come. "Knowing," saith he, "that
whatsoever good or evil[1] thing each one doeth, the same shall he receive
of the Lord," and thus at once instructs them to love wisdom. For though
they be inferior to the children in dignity, still in mind they are superior
to them.
"Servants," saith he, "be
obedient to them that, according to the flesh, are your masters."
Thus at
once he raises up, at once soothes the wounded soul. Be not grieved, he seems
to say, that
you are inferior
to the wife and the children. Slavery
is nothing but a name. The mastership is "according to the flesh," brief
and temporary;[2] for whatever is of the flesh, is transitory. "With fear," he
adds, "and trembling."[3] Thou seest that he does not require the
same fear from slaves as from wives: for in that case he simply said, "and
let the wife see that she fear her husband "; whereas in this case he
heightens the expression, "with fear," he saith, "and trembling,
in singleness of your heart, as unto Christ." This is what he constantly
says. What meanest thou, blessed Paul? He is a brother, or rather he has become
a brother, he enjoys the same privileges, he belongs to the same body. Yea,
more, he is the brother, not of his own master only, but also of the Son of
God, he is partaker of all the same privileges; yet sayest thou, "obey
your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling"? Yes, for
this very reason, he would say, I say it. For if I charge free men to submit
themselves one to another in the fear of God,--as he said above, "submitting
yourselves one to another in the fear of Christ";--if I charge moreover
the wife to fear and reverence her husband, although she is his equal; much
more must I so speak to the servant. It is no sign of low birth, rather it
is the truest nobility, to understand how to lower ourselves, to be modest
and unassuming, and to give way to our neighbor. And the free have served the
free with much fear and trembling. "In singleness of heart," he says.
And it
is well said, since it is possible to serve with fear and trembling, and
yet not of good will,
but
in just any way that may be possible. Many servants
in many instances secretly cheat their masters. And this cheating accordingly
he does away, by saying, "in singleness of your heart as unto Christ,
not in the way of eye-service as men-pleasers, but as servants of Christ, doing
the will of God from the heart; with good-will doing service, as unto the Lord,
and not unto men." Seest thou how many words he requires, in order to
implant this good principle, "with goodwill," I mean, and "from
the heart"? That other service, "with fear and trembling" I
mean, we see many rendering to their masters, and the master's threat goes
far to secure that. But show, saith he, that thou servest as "the servant
of Christ," not of man. Make the right action your own, not one of compulsion.
Just as in the words which follow, he persuades and instructs the man who is
ill-treated by another to make the right action his own, and the work of his
own free choice. Because inasmuch as the man that smites the cheek, is not
supposed to come to that act in consequence of any intention in the person
struck, but only of his own individual malice, what saith He? "Turn to
him the other also" (Matt. v. 39); to show him that in submitting to the
first thou wert not unwilling. For he that is lavish in suffering wrong, makes
that his own which is not his own act, by suffering himself to be smitten on
the other cheek also, and not merely by enduring the first blow. For this latter
will have perhaps the appearance even of cowardice; but that of a high philosophy.--Thus
thou wilt show that it was for the sake of wisdom that thou didst bear the
first blow also. And so in the present case, show here too, that thou bearest
this slavery also willingly. The man-pleaser then is no servant of Christ.
The servant of Christ is not a man-pleaser. (Gal. i. 10.) For who that is the
servant of God, makes it his object to please men? And who that pleases men,
can be a servant of God?
"From the heart,"[1] saith he, "with good-will doing service." For
since it is possible to do service even with singleness of heart and not wrongfully,
and yet not with all one's might, but only so far as fulfilling one's bounden
duty, therefore he says, do it with alacrity, not of necessity, upon principle,
not upon constraint. If thus thou do service, thou art no slave; if thou do
it upon principle, if with good-will, if from the heart, and if for Christ's
sake. For this is the servitude that even Paul, the free man, serves, and exclaims, "For
we preach not ourselves, but Christ Jesus, as Lord, and ourselves as your servants
for Jesus' sake." (2 Cor. iv. 5.) Look how he divests thy slavery of its
meanness. For just in the same way as the man who has been robbed, if he gives
still more to him who has taken, is not ranked among those robbed, but rather
amongst liberal givers; not amongst those who suffer evil, but amongst those
who do good; and rather clothes the other with disgrace by his liberality,
than is clothed with disgrace by being robbed,--so, I say, in this case, by
his generosity he will appear at once more high-minded, and by showing that
he does not feel the wrong,[2] will put the other to shame.
Let us
then do service to our masters for Christ's sake, "knowing," he
continues, "that whatsoever good thing each one doeth, the same shall
he receive of the Lord, whether he be bond or free." For inasmuch as it
was probable that many masters, as being unbelievers, would have no sense of
shame, and would make no return to their slaves for their obedience, observe
how he has given them encouragement, so that they may have no misgiving about
the remuneration, but may have full confidence respecting the recompense. For
as they who receive a benefit, when they make no return, make God a debtor
to their benefactors; so, I say, do masters also, if, when well-treated by
thee, they fail to requite thee, requite thee the more, by rendering God thy
debtor.
Ver. 9. "And ye masters," he continues, "do
the same things unto them."
The same
things. What are these? "With good-will do service." However
he does not actually say, "do service," though by saying, "the
same things," he plainly shows this to be his meaning. For the master
himself is a servant. "Not as men-pleasers," he means, "and
with fear and trembling": that is, toward God, fearing lest He one day
accuse you for your negligence toward your slaves.
"And forbear threatening;" be
not irritating, he means, nor oppressive.
"Knowing that both their Master and[3] yours is in Heaven."[4] Ah!
How mighty a Master does he hint at here! How startling the suggestion! It
is this. "With what measure thou metest, it shall be measured unto thee
again" (Matt. vii. 2); lest thou hear the sentence, "Thou wicked
servant. I forgave thee all that debt." (Matt. xviii. 32.)
"And there is no respect of persons," he saith, "with
Him."
Think not, he would say, that what is done towards a servant, He will therefore
forgive, because done to a servant. Heathen laws indeed as being the laws of
men, recognize a difference between these kinds of offenses. But the law of
the common Lord and Master of all, as doing good to all alike, and dispensing
the same rights to all, knows no such difference.
But should any one ask, whence is slavery, and why it has found entrance into
human life, (and many I know are both glad to ask such questions, and desirous
to be informed of them,) I will tell you. Slavery is the fruit of covetousness,
of degradation, of savagery; since Noah, we know, had no servant, nor had Abel,
nor Seth, no, nor they who came after them. The thing was the fruit of sin,
of rebellion against parents. Let children hearken to this, that whenever they
are undutiful to their parents, they deserve to be servants. Such a child strips
himself of his nobility of birth; for he who rebels against his father is no
longer a son; and if he who rebels against his father is not a son, how shall
he be a son who rebels against our true Father? He has departed from his nobility
of birth, he has done outrage to nature. Then come also wars, and battles,
and take their prisoners.[1] Well, but Abraham, you will say, had servants.
Yes, but he used them not as servants.
Observe
how everything depends upon the head; the wife, by telling him "to
love her"; the children, by telling him "to bring them up in the
chastening and admonition of the Lord"; the servants, by the words, "knowing
that both their Master and yours is in Heaven." So, saith he, ye also
in like manner, as being yourselves servants, shall be kind and indulgent. "Finally,
be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might."
But if, before considering this next, ye have a mind to hearken, I shall make
the same remarks concerning servants, as I have also made before concerning
children. Teach them to be religious, and everything else will follow of necessity.
But now, when any one is going to the theater, or going off to the bath, he
drags all his servants after him; but when he goes to church, not for a moment;
nor does he compel them to attend and hear. Now how shall thy servant listen,
when thou his master art attending to other things? Hast thou purchased, hast
thou bought thy slave? Before all things enjoin him what God would have him
do, to be gentle towards his fellow-servants, and to make much account of virtue.
Every one's house is a city; and every man is a prince in his own house. That
the house of the rich is of this character, is plain enough, where there are
both lands, and stewards, and rulers over rulers. But I say that the house
of the poor also is a city. Because here too there are offices of authority;
for instance, the husband has authority over the wife, the wife over the servants,
the servants again over their own wives; again the wives and the husbands over
the children. Does he not seem to you to be, as it were, a sort of king, having
so many authorities under his own authority? and that it were meet that he
should be more skilled both in domestic and general government than all the
rest? For he who knows how to manage these in their several relations, will
know how to select the fittest men for offices, yes, and will choose excellent
ones. And thus the wife will be a second king in the house, lacking only the
diadem; and be who knows how to choose this king, will excellently regulate
all the rest.
Ver. 10. "Finally," saith he, "be
strong in the Lord."
Whenever the discourse is about to conclude, he always employs this turn.
Said I not well from the first, that every man's house is a camp in itself?
For look, having disposed of the several offices, he proceeds to arm them,
and to lead them out to war.[2] If no one usurps the other's office, but every
one remains at his post, all will be well ordered.
"Be strong," saith he, "in
the Lord, and in the strength of His might."
That is, in the hope which we have in Him, by means of His aid. For as he
had enjoined many duties, which were necessary to be done, fear not, he seems
to say, cast your hope upon the Lord, and He will make all easy.
Ver. 11. "Put
on the whole armor of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles
of
the devil."
He saith
not, against the fightings, nor against the hostilities, but against the "-wiles." For this enemy is at war with us, not simply, nor openly,
but by" wiles." What is meant by wiles? To use "wiles," is
to deceive and to take by artifice or contrivance ; a thing which takes place
both in the case of the arts, and by words, and actions, and stratagems, in
the case of those who seduce us. I mean something like this. The Devil never
proposes to us sins in their proper colors; he does not speak of idolatry,
but he sets it off in another dress, using "wiles,"[1] that is, making
his discourse plausible, employing disguises. Now therefore the Apostle is
by this means both rousing the soldiers, and making them vigilant, by persuading
and instructing them, that our conflict is with one skilled in the arts of
war, and with one who wars not simply, nor directly, but with much wiliness.
And first then he arouses the disciples from the consideration of the Devil's
skill; but in the second place, from his nature, and the number of his forces.
It is not from any desire to dispirit the soldiers that stand under him, but
to arouse, and to awaken them, that he mentions these stratagems, and prepares
them to be vigilant; for had he merely detailed their power, and there stopped
his discourse, he must have dispirited them. But now, whereas both before and
after this, he shows that it is possible to overcome such an enemy, he rather
raises their courage; for the more clearly the strength of our adversaries
is stated on our part to our own people, so much the more earnest will it render
our soldiers.
Ver. 12. "For our wrestling is not," saith he, "against
flesh and blood,[2] but against the principalities, against the powers, against
the
world-rulers of this darkness, against the spiritual hosts of wickedness, in
the heavenly places."
Having
stimulated them by the character of the conflict, he next goes on to arouse
them also by
the prizes set before
them. For what is his argument? Having
said that the enemies are fierce, he adds further, that they despoil us of
vast blessings. What are these? The conflict lies "in the heavenlies";[3]
the struggle is not about riches, not about glory, but about our being enslaved.
And thus is the enmity irreconcilable. The strife and the conflict are fiercer
when for vast interests at stake; for the expression "in the heavenlies"[3]
is equivalent to, "for the heavenly things." It is not that they
may gain anything by the conquest, but that they may despoil us. As if one
were to say, "In what does the contract lie?" In gold. The word "in," means, "in
behalf of"; the word "in," also means, "on account[4] of."[5]
Observe how the power of the enemy startles us; how it makes us all circumspection,
to know that the hazard is on behalf of vast interests, and the victory for
the sake of great rewards. For he is doing his best to cast us out of Heaven.
He speaks
of certain "principalities, and powers, and world-rulers of
this darkness." What darkness? Is it that of night? No, but of wickedness. "For
ye were," saith he, "once darkness" (Eph. v. 8); so naming that
wickedness which is in this present life; for beyond it, it will have no place,
not in Heaven, nor in the world to come.
"World-rulers " [6] he calls them, not as having the mastery over
the world, but the Scripture is wont to call wicked practices "the world," as,
for example, where Christ saith, "They are not of this world, even as
I am not of the world." (John xvii. 16.) What then, were they not of the
world? Were they not clothed with flesh? Were they not of those who are in
the world? And again; "The world hateth Me, but you it cannot hate." (John
vii. 7.) Where again He calls wicked practices by this name. Thus the Apostle
here by the world means wicked men, and the evil spirits have more especial
power over them. "Against the spiritual hosts of wickedness," saith
he, "in the heavenly places." "Principalities, and powers," he
speaks of; just as in the heavenly places there are "thrones and dominions,
principalities and powers." (Col. i. 16.)
Ver. 13. "Wherefore," saith he, "take
up the whole armor of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day,
and, having done all,
to stand."
By "evil day" he means the present life, [7] and calls it too "this
present evil world" (Gal. i. 4), from the evils which are done in it.
It is as much as to say, Always be armed. And again, "having done all," saith
he; that is, both passions, and vile lusts, and all things else that trouble
us. He speaks not merely of doing the deed, but of completing it, [8] so as
not only to slay, but to stand also after we have slain. For many who have
gained this victory, have fallen again. "Having done," saith he, "all";
not having done one, but not the other. For even after the victory, we must
stand. An enemy may be struck, but things that are struck revive again if we
do not stand. But if after having fallen they rise up again, so long as we
stand, they are fallen. So long as we waver not, the adversary rises not again.
"Let us put on the whole armor of God." Seest thou how he banishes
all fear? For if it be possible "to do all, and to stand," his describing
in detail the power of the enemy does not create cowardice and fear, but it
shakes off indolence. "That ye may be able," he saith, "to withstand
in the evil day." And he further gives them encouragement too from the
time; the time, he seems to say, is short;[1] so that ye must needs stand;
faint not when the slaughter is achieved.
MORAL.
If then it is a warfare, if such are the forces arrayed against us, if "the principalities" are incorporeal, if they are "rulers
of the world," if they are "the spiritual hosts of wickedness," how,
tell me, canst thou live in self-indulgence? How canst thou be dissolute? How
if we are unarmed, shall we be able to overcome? These words let every one
repeat to himself every day, whenever he is under the influence of anger, or
of lust, whenever he is aiming, and all to no profit, after this languid life.
Let him hearken to the blessed Paul, saying to him, "Our wrestling is
not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers." A
harder warfare this than that which is matter of sense, a fiercer conflict.
Think how long time this enemy is wrestling, for what it is that he is fighting,
and be more guarded than ever. "Nay," a man will say, "but as
he is the devil, he ought to have been removed out of the way, and then all
had been saved."[2] These are the pretenses to which some of your indolent
ones m self-defense give utterance. When thou oughtest to be thankful, O man,
that, if thou hast a mind, thou hast the victory over such a foe, thou art
on the contrary even discontented, and givest utterance to the words of some
sluggish and sleepy soldier. Thou knowest the points of attack,[3] if thou
choosest. Reconnoiter on all sides, fortify thyself. Not against the devil
alone is the conflict, but also against his powers. How then, you may say,
are we to wrestle with the darkness? By becoming light. How with the "spiritual
hosts of wickedness"? By becoming good. For wickedness is contrary to
good, and light drives away darkness. But if we ourselves too be darkness,
we shall inevitably be taken captive. How then shall we overcome them? If,
what they are by nature, that we become by choice, free from flesh and blood,
thus shall we vanquish them. For nce it was probable that the disciples would
have many persecutors, "imagine not," he would say, "that it
is they who war with you. They that really war with you, are the spirits that
work in them. Against them is our conflict." Two things he provides for
by these considerations; he renders them in themselves more courageous and
he lets loose their wrath against those who war against them. And wherefore
is our conflict against these? Since we have also an invincible ally, the grace
of the Spirit. We have been taught an art, such as shall enable us to wrestle
not against men, but against spirits. Nay, if we have a mind, neither shall
we wrestle at all; for it is because we choose it, that there is a struggle,
since so great is the power of Him that dwelleth in us, as that He said, "Behold,
I have given you authority to tread upon serpents and scorpions, and over all
the power of the enemy." (Luke x. 19.) All power hath He given us, both
of wrestling and of not wrestling. It is because we are slothful, that we have
to wrestle with them ; for that Paul wrestled not, hear what he saith himself, "Who
shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or anguish, or
persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?" (Rom. viii.
35.) And again hear his words, "God shall bruise Satan under your feet
shortly." (Rom. xvi. 20.) For he had him under his subjection; whence
also he said, "I charge thee in the name of Jesus Christ to come out of
her." (Acts xvi. 18.) And this is not the language of one wrestling; for
he that wrestles has not yet conquered, and he that has conquered no longer
wrestles; he has subdued, has taken his captive. And so Peter again wrestled
not with the devil, but he did that which was better than wrestling. In the
case of the faithful, the obedient, the catechumens, they prevailed over him
to vast advantage and over his powers. Hence too was it that the blessed Paul
said, "For we are not ignorant of his devices" (2 Cor. ii. 11), which
was the way moreover in which he especially overcame him; and again hear his
words, "And no marvel--if his ministers also fashion themselves as ministers
of righteousness." (2 Cor. xi. 14, 15.) So well knew he every part of
the conflict, and nothing escaped him. Again, "For the mystery of lawlessness," saith
he, "doth already work." (2 Thess. ii. 7.)
But against
its is the struggle; for hearken again to him, saying, "I
am persuaded, that neither angels, nor principalities, nor things present,
nor things to come, nor powers, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate
us from the love of Christ." (Rom. viii. 38.) He saith not simply, "from
Christ," but, "from the love of Christ."[4] For many there are
who are united forsooth to Christ, and who yet love Him not. Not only, saith
he, shalt thou not persuade me to deny Him, but, not even to love Him less.
And if the powers above had not strength to do this, who else should move him?
Not, however, that he saith this, as though they were actually attempting it,
but upon the supposition; wherefore also he said, "I am persuaded." So
then he did not wrestle, yet nevertheless he fears his artifices; for hear
what he saith, "I fear lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve
in his craftiness, your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that
is toward Christ." (2 Cor. xi. 3.) True, you will say, but he uses this
word touching himself also where he saith, "For I fear[1] lest, by any
means, after that I have preached to others I myself should be rejected." How
then art thou "persuaded that no one shall separate thee "? Perceivest
thou that the expression is that of lowliness and of humility? For he already
dwelt in Heaven. And hence also it was that he said, "For I know nothing
against myself" (1 Cor. iv. 4); and again, "I have finished the course." (2
Tim. iv. 7.) So that it was not with regard to these matters that the devil
placed obstacles in his way, but with reference to the interests of the disciples.
And why forsooth? Because in these points he was not himself sole master, but
also their own will. There the devil prevailed in some cases; nay, neither
there was it over him that he prevailed, but over the indolence of persons
who took no heed. If indeed, whether from slothfulness, or anything else of
the sort, he had failed to fulfill his own duty, then had the devil prevailed
over him; but if he himself on his part did all he could, and they obeyed not
it was not over him he prevailed, but over their disobedience; and the disease
prevailed not over the physician, but over the unruliness of the patient; for,
when the physician takes every precaution, and the patient undoes all, the
patient is defeated, not the physician. Thus then in no instance did he prevail
over Paul. But in our own case, it is matter for contentment that we should
be so much as able to wrestle. For the Romans indeed this is not what he asks,
but what? "He shall bruise Satan under your feet shortly." (Rom.
xvi. 20.) And for these Ephesians he invokes, "Him that is able to do
exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think." (Eph. iii. 20.)
He that wrestles is still held fast, but it is enough for him that he has not
fallen. When we depart hence, then, and not till then, will the glorious victory
be achieved. For instance, take the case of some evil lust. The extraordinary
thing would be, not even to entertain it, but to stifle it. If, however, this
be not possible, then though we may have to wrestle with it, and retain it
to the last, yet if we depart still wrestling, we are conquerors. For the case
is not the same here as it is with wrestlers; for there if thou throw not thy
antagonist, thou hast not conquered; but here if thou be not thrown, thou hast
conquered; if thou art not thrown, thou hast thrown him; and with reason, because
there both strive for the victory, and when the one is thrown, the other is
crowned; here, however, it is not thus, but the devil is striving for our defeat;
when then I strip him of that upon which he is bent, I am conqueror. For it
is not to overthrow us, but to make us share his overthrow that he is eager.
Already then am I conqueror, for he is already cast down, and in a state of
ruin; and his victory consists not in being himself crowned, but in effecting
my ruin; so that though I overthrow him not, yet if I be not overthrown, I
have conquered. What then is a glorious victory? It is, over and above, to
trample him underfoot, as Paul did, by regarding the things of this present
world as nothing. Let us too imitate him, and strive to become above them,
and nowhere to give him a hold upon u